If you are thinking about writing me, it's probably too late. Most likely I will not write you back. I have been here quite active and I am almost ready to make a move. I should be seeing a lady(s) this Spring. I still don't know which one. I am still single. I still up for graps, but your timing maybe off. If you are the one, I am sure you will squeeze through to me. So there is still a chance.

I NORMALLY DON'T RESPOND TO LETTERS THAT SHOW MY PROFILE WAS NOT READ.

PLEASE DON'T WRITE ME IF AFTER WE TRANSITION FROM THIS WEBSITE TO EMAIL YOU ARE NOT READY TO TALK BY PHONE. ONCE WE GO DOWN THE ROUTE OF ENDLESS CORRESPONDENCE WE WOULD NOT GET ANYWHERE. PLEASE READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE TO ASSURE YOURSELF THAT ITS THE RIGHT DECISION, WHUCH EVER YOU TAKE. IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBTS PLEASE DON'T WRITE ME. IF YOU HAVE A BAD FEELING ABOUT ME, PLEASE DON'T WRITE ME. IF I LOOK TO YOU LIKE A MONSTER IN A MOVIE DON'T WRITE ME. IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO TALK TO A THERAPIST TO TALK TO ME PLEASE DON'T WRITE ME. ONLY WRITE ME IF YOU ARE READY AFTER A SHORT PERIOD OF CORRESPOBDENCE TO VENTURE IN THE REAL WORLD OF COMMUNICATION BESIDES EMAIL. IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE COURAGE FOR REAL COMMUNICATION PLEASE DON'T WRITE ME.

It is interesting that at my age I am a very eligible bachelor. Hopefully you are taking me seriously because at any given moment I could be snatched by a lady. Time is the essence. The longer you wait to secure me the bigger the chance you have of losing me to another lady. I once heard from a radio host that men as they get older, they become more eligible for ladies. They tend to become more mature, more stable; they move up in the business world, they acquire wealth while many women spend a lot of their money and time buying expensive clothes, beauty items, surgeries and as they get older a lot of them end up having but themselves. All they wanted through their efforts was a man. Then when they did get one, a lot of them neglected themselves after having children as they don't care since they got their man and got him stuck with children. If they divorce, women are a lot of the times overweight and perhaps not good looking through their own negligence. Throughout this process, men end up being more wanted and eligible. These men are more demanding and impatient. Men if divorced can easily attract younger women, while a woman can have trouble attracting a man 10 years older since these men can attract women 20 years younger. What are your thoughts on this?

PLEASE SEE MY ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME

I am not pursuing a relationship with ladies that live in The Ukraine, Russia or Belarus. Due to the war in that area of the world I find it almost impossible to meet with any lady that reside in these countries. I would certainly not enter any of these countries until the war is over. It would also take 6 months to a year or more before a lady could possibly feel comfotable for us to meet in person in another country. I highly doubt any lady would take that that bold step. If any of you ladies are flying to Los Angeles, California I may cinsider seeing you in person.

Please only write me if you want to get in touch with me through direct contact once outside of this website. It will not be through letter writing or emails. Letter writing can be an endless thing and lead to nowhere. We can continue to stay in touch by phone, by Whatsapp, by Skype or any other direct means. If you decide to maintain a correspondence because you are not ready to talk to me over the phone or video chat, don’t be surprised if another lady takes priority over you.

If you do not want to meet after we are out of this website, and you want to correspond for another 3 months up to a year I would rather you not torture me with the waiting. Just the thought of waiting for so long disuades me even from starting a correspondence. Just because you are ready to meet me, does not mean we will meet soon after. The interest needs to be mutual.


Please also don't write if you are not ready for a relationship. If you have too many things in your plate, and being in a relationship is not a top priority, then it's no use in starting. Also, if you have an issue(s) with age differences in a relationship or concerns, please don't experiment with me. Please don't write me if you are still under the care of your parents. If you are, you wouldn't be mature enough for me. Please don't write me if you need time to recover from the war or if it's completely consuming your emotions and mind.

I will never make you my girlfriend if we have not met in person, and have not evolved it to that level. Just because you send me beautiful, intimate letters and sexy pictures, does not make you my girlfriend or reserve me with exclusivity.

I have got gotten many letters from many ladies here. If we are in touch it does not mean you have reserved me or vice versa. I just want to see if we have chemistry and compatibility for each other to possibly meet in person. In all of this activity, I want to end up having only one relationship. If this type of format makes you uncomfortable please don't contact me as you would not be the only lady I am in touch with. I will not ask you if you are writing anyone here. Once you are my girlfriend, I will suspend my account here and cut ties with other ladies in the area of love or make it known that I am in a relationship already.

In my previous relationships I was a faithful and a loyal man. I am not here to be played or to play with any of you girls. It's hard enough finding someone over long distance to ascertain that all is well to travel to meet.

If you think you feel comfortable having me request your contact information from the agency, please let me know as soon as you can. It cost me $50 to have your information expedited without having to pay to open 15 letters from you, which could run from $5 to $20 dollars each one. I would rather start communicating outside of this website if both of us are interested in each other. I already paid and got processed in this agency for the security clearance. I passed the security clearance, meaning I don't have a criminal record, I am not into human trafficking and things of that sort. I am also in good standing with the agency. I don't have any misdmeaners or
or felonies. I have never had any problem with the law.


I am trying to expose myself to as many ladies as possible, to see if things click with one to pursue a formal relationship. If I see doubt in your eyes about me. If you are hesitant when you shouldn't. If your communication is bland toward me. If you write me whenever you have time after you have done everything else that matters to you in your priorities, then it would give me reason to buy more credits to correspond with more ladies. If you write me with no skills in courtship and that you only expect me to carry forth. If you want me to conquer you while you sit on your --- to be serviced like a queen. If you write every 3 to 5 days and still expect to be relevant with me. If I notice if you don't care, one way or another about us, it will give me the perfect excuse to keep looking for another lady. If you want to take your time corresponding through endless letters, as if you were the only lady interested in me, you could do so...but don't be surprised if you lose me to another lady. I have this right just as you do, as this is an open forum. We are here to find ideally the right person in the area of love.

I am single. I have never married. I do not have any children. I want to establish a formal relationship to create a loving family.


Just for your information, as regards

Just for youe information, as regards security, I passed the security check here in the site. I paid $50.00 for the background check. I don't have any misdeamors or felonies. I have never killed or murdered anyone. I have raped raped or physically hit any women. I am not a pedofile. I never been in jail or been been convicted of any crime.



Also, once we are communicating outside of the agency I would expect for us to talk over the phone, doing video chat. If you don't want to give me your phone number right away, it's OK. I can give you my phone number so that you can call me with your ID set to private. You don't think you are ready for this, please don't ask me to buy your contact information. I gave you an in-depth profile to inspire you confidence. If I don't inspire confidence in you from the very beginning please don't contact me. If you don't know how to trust people, you can't be trusted as the old adage goes. This would make you insecure, doubtful and indecisive.

I am a mature man. I have old school values. I am looking to find a woman where our love is mutual and to start a family.

I am a creative person... interested in various art forms such as painting, music and writing poetry.

I recommend if you find a man you have a strong connection here, one who you have good chemistry, that you are compatible to a good extent and that you have a passion for, to not delay. Delaying is a form of showing doubt. There are other women like you looking for a similar man. If you don't up your interest and approach you may very well lose him to another lady that is more resourceful, one that is willing to take more of a risk and one that acts beyond her comfort zone. Putting delays may be a luxury a man may not want to pay with his time, energy and endless letters from you.

I am not into the idea of having sex only after being married. One way of knowing if I am compatible with you is experiencing sex with you. Even if we didn't get married, I would expect to have sex with you in the process of knowing each other. Having intimate moments like this is very important to me and hopefully to you as well. This wouldn't be about me, but about us.

I am 55 years of age. Still living life like a rock star. jejejeje. I always say that I like to take care of myself so that I can abuse my body. Whatever I do I do it with moderation. I drink hard liquor, beer, smoke a cigar and cigarettes once in a while, stay up late, party hard...like I said once in a while with moderation.

I have lost most of my hair, it runs on both sides of my family. I usually wear a beret or cap. I wore hats when I had hair, and I wear them now. I wear something on my head, when it's hot to protect me from the sun, when it's cold to keep my head warm. I am not going to shave my head. I don't like that style. It is also uncomfortable wearing a hat with a bald head if I am out in the sun.

I work hard to make a living. I love art but I am a business man. I am involved in various businesses. My main business is landscape maintenance and design for commercial properties. I have employees in the USA and Mexico. I am also involved with a business partner in the antique furniture/collectibles business in Mexico. I also buy and sell art of listed artist. I also buy land as an investment and to possibly build in the future. I am always looking for different sources of income. I am essentially an entrepreneur.

I am a frugal man. I look after my money. But I am not cheap. I like to live a life of indulgence from time to time. I life with the philosophy that to be generous, one must me thrifty. If I won a big lottery, I would invest it.

I am looking for a woman that values the traditional roles in a relationship. American Indians only have one chief for every tribe. If I am in a relationship the role of chief is mine per se. If a woman wants that position, it will not be with me. If we are in a formal relationship, like marriage, I will run the household. Of course, we would have good communication between us, but ultimately I will decide on things. How much money you have or make or how many college degrees you have will not take away my role as the head of the relationship or family. Some men prefer to give up the role to their women. It will not be with me. I also don't need a women to challenge me for that position. Men get drafted for wars, not women. We, men, have earned certain rights in our planet. This is not to take away anything from women. I love women. They are sensible, understanding, communicative, their matermal instincts are phenomenal, they add a balance to everything… that is quite extraordinary.

I plan just about every aspect of my life for greater efficiency and better results. I like to live the good life...traveling, dining, going to music concerts, hanging out with my friends and family. What I offer you besides my love and care, is my lifestyle.

I live near Los Angeles, in California. I can actually see the fireworks from Disneyland if I get on top of the roof of my house. I live about 2O minutes from the beach, we have some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. I wish I could afford those homes, appreciating them is enough for me. I love my house and neighborhood.

I have done many art exhibits of my art work. I have organized events that involved other artists. I currently send an art and culture e-newsletter in Spanish to promote the arts in general to thousands of people living in Baja California and San Diego in California.

I have written hundreds of poems. I recite poetry often in public venues. I have planned a book release for this year.

I practice guitar/bass guitar with a friend(s) every week and a percussion instrument and other instruments which I doubt you have seen. We do music shows on occasion. We used to do jazz and performed in various venues when I played the drums.

I may seem like a real serious person but I am a light hearted guy. I do have a good sense of humor. I like to say funny things. I am like a child still in a grown-up body. My specialty is dry humor. Coincidentally, I like to watch live stand-up comedy and I like to see stand up comedy videos. Comedians are very insightful people and some of the most intelligent human beings on the planet. There are people that bring out the comic in me, if you are one of those people, you would have found a treasure in me.

I was born in Mexico and have been living in the USA since I was a small child. I love Mexico, I drive 3 hours to cross into Mexico once a month. I have a home in the port of Ensenada, Baja California and have lots of friends and connections. It's a great place to get away and experience something different in a Pacific paradise.

I love the city I live in in California and my home in Mexico. I like to be near Mexico to continue with my Latin connection...it is similar to that of Italy. We have perfect weather here compared to other parts of the world. I live in a diverse area of the world without much culture clash.

I am a man who has lived a lot. I feel comfortable with myself. I recognize that I need a women as a companion... it can be a very beautiful experience. I am looking for a woman where we have mutual interest in each other and to create a lovely family.

I would like to buy an apartment one day in another country, like in Kiev. At my age, I am considering living in multiple locations throughout the year.

If you decide to write me, please write me in English using your own words. Don't write me using any translation program. It is unlikely I will meet you if you can't communicate in English or Spanish. I want us to at least be able to communicate even if you can't speak English that well. Don't think that if we meet we will get a translator. This is not going to happen.

If I go and see you, I will most likely want you to tell your parents about me. It is important to me that you let them know about me. If they don't approve of our possible relationship and meeting up, I would want to talk to them first. If I am unable to get their approval, it would be up for the two of us to meet. We are adults; legally speaking nothing can stop us from meeting and creating a relationship.

I am searching for women under 33 years of age, ideally over 23 years of age. Must speak English or Spanish at intermediate level or better. If not please don't write me.


I NORMALLY DON'T RESPOND TO LETTERS THAT SHOW MY PROFILE WAS NOT READ.

PLEASE GO OVER MY ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE YOU WRITE ME, EVEN IF YOU SEND ME A CUT AND PASTE MESSAGE.

Please only write me if you want to get in touch with me through direct communication once outside of this website. It will not be through letter writing or emails. Letter writing can be an endless thing and lead to nowhere. We can continue to stay in touch by phone, by Whatsapp, by Skype or any other direct means. Should things not work out between you and I, I would pull myself out of your world permanently.

I am looking for a woman that is mature regardless of her age. I am looking for a woman that is a lady, which has class in every aspect of her life. I want the woman that I end up marrying or be in a relationship with good qualities for her to be a good mother.

I want a woman that has a lot going on in her life. I do not want to be her center. I want for us to support each other’s careers and passions in life.

I am not looking for women past 33 years. After 35 having children can be difficult. Ideally I would prefer a woman between 27 up to 33 years old. Maybe I would consider a woman that is younger, but not older than 33. If a woman is 33, we could still have one or two children.

I am not looking for a woman that her only contribution to the relationship is her beauty. I am not looking for a museum piece. I want my love partner to contribute as much to the relationship as me; otherwise you would wear me down. If I did, I would be adopting a woman, just like a child. I am 55 years of age. I don't want to adopt a woman for us to be in a relationship. I want both of us to create and financially support the relationship. Courtship is a two way road, if only one person does the doing, it leads to a dead end.

I am also not looking for a diva. I know a woman that flies only first class. She expects others to pay for airfare...of course. She also has an expensive meat and nut diet, which others are expected to pay. I don't want a diva, whether I pay for her expenses or not.

If you call yourself mature, it would mean the following to me:
---You don't depend on your parents to make important decisions.
---You have been in enough relationships to know what you want in a man and you can be what a man wants as well.
---You are independent and resourceful. You can cook for yourself, take care of your clothes, take care of your body.
---You pay your bills on time. You strive to maintain a good credit. I personally need good credit for insurances and so on. If we got married, your credit would blend in with mine. If you lower my credit score I may need to pay thousands of dollars more to keep my business going and to get new loans if necessary.
---If we got married, don't expect me to support you. In the USA if one of the individuals doesn’t work in the relationship, and they get a divorce...the other would have to keep supporting that individual. This is not going to happen with me. I would rather be dead than having to support a woman after supporting her during marriage. I see this as being very unfair.
---A man to be a good eligible bachelor needs to study when he is young, even work to pay for his education till he graduates. Then he is expected to get a good career. Then work hard to get his own car, place, like an apartment or house. At this point, any woman can move into his life. A woman in a similar way, is expected to do her part to be an eligible woman for a relationship or marriage. Just being beautiful is not enough. How else is she going to do her part to keep the relationship going and to rear children?

Key points I am looking for in a woman:
---Classy, educated, with old school values but not antiquated.
---Woman who does not need permission from her parents to do things or to be with me.
---Woman that is not fanatical to any religion, political system....
---Woman that is not a heavy drinker, smoker or into drugs or even taking psychiatric drugs.
---Woman that is career minded, even if she lives at home to help raise the kids.
---Woman that is not manipulative and controlling.
---Woman that does not need drama to be happy.
---Woman that is straightforward.
---Woman that wants to find her ideal man as opposed to hitching on to a man for other reasons, like for financial security or to leave her country or to simply get legal documents to live in the USA.
---I prefer to find a woman who does not have children. But if I find a women that is irresistible, her child(ren) would be an extension of herself and I would gladly have her with them in my life. I think this will be very unlikely and more complicated if you don't live in the USA already.
---I prefer women that do not have tattoos, puffed up lips, fake breast, plastic surgery, and piercings.
---It is not the custom of my family or culture to give a dowry. Don’t expect this from me if you want to marry me.

I also wanted to mention that I am looking for a woman that has the need to find herself a man and be in a relationship. If a woman does not have that need, and merely contemplates it, she wouldn't be ready for me. I have the need to be in a relationship. I do get impatient with ladies that are not at that level. They are too much work as they have other more important things in their lives. This could be their career, maybe they are very absorbed with their friends. Maybe some of these girls are cold as fish and they have no need for sex. If I see any of these red flags, I can't take a lady seriously. I may very well put her in the back burner and keep searching.

Things that I like:
Movies: The Shining, Immortal Beloved, Goodfellas, Star Wars, The Godfather, Scarface, The Breakfast Club, The Matrix, Minority Report, Risky Business, Unforgiven, Open Range, Brother, Clockwork Orange, V for Vendetta, Il Postino, Malena, Cinema Paradiso, Swan Song, American Beauty, American Graffiti and many more.

Books: The Little Prince, 1984, Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu, The Arte of War by Sun Tzu, The 48 Laws of Power, books by Roger Alan Currie, I like Shakespeare, Lust for Life, poetry books, short stories....

Music: Led Zeppelin, Nirvana, Stiff Little Fingers, Cash, Waylon Jennings, Rage Against the Machine, Beethoven, The Pixies, Sepultura, Accept, Pantera, Rock n Espanol, Mexican music, the Beatles, Rolling Stones, Muddy Waters, Jazz, Blues, Hip Hop, Country, Opera, Classical Musical, Rap.

POLITICS: I am not into the following forms of government: communism, socialism and fascism. I favor a republic over any other form of government.

Activities I enjoy doing:
---Going to music events.
---Hanging out with friends, enjoying beers, smoking on occasion cigarettes and cigars.
---Love to travel to Mexico and other places. I have been to Canada and Jamaica. I have visited NY, Florida and once I drove across the country in the USA. I have been to Ukraine. I recently visted friends in Dallas, Texas.
---Enjoy going to museums and art shows.
---Eating different kinds of foods in restaurants from different countries.
---I like to read articles regarding all kinds of subjects.

HEALTH
--- I enjoy researching things that are good for my health.
--- I try to eat organic food.
--- I am into essential oils, herbs and natural things.
--- I am not a vegetarian. You can be a vegetarian or vegan, just don't push it on me or try to make me feel guilty for eating meat or its byproducts.

I am a man set in my ways but not because I am stubborn. I simply know who I am and what I want. I am not looking for a woman to change or transform me the way she wants.

I am not looking for a woman to be her rival. I definitely don't want a woman that wants to rival me in every way. I have seen this happen in relationships. It does not work and it never has any harmony.

You may be a princess, but if we are in a relationship it'll work best if both of us contribute in an equal way somehow. I do not want to be the one that carries the whole burden. If contribute to the relationship you earn having it with your actions.

Some women that are very beautiful feel that they're entitled to everything without them doing nothing. I have seen women like this, not only do they receive things without giving anything in return, but that they actually demand it. Some women regardless, of how they look they are consumers in a relationship, it is about themselves, the me-me types.

I am not a nice person per se, nice people get abused. I am a loving individual but very tough. I don't take shit from nobody! I may not be the nicest person in the world, but I am fair, straightforward and loyal.

I am not looking for platonic love. If I don't want to marry you, even if I love you, it may just be that the laws don't favor men in marriage in the USA. I would want to protect myself as much as possible. If I ever have children with you I would most likely marry you if I want to be with you. If we ever get married I would do a prenuptial agreement. If you live with me in the USA or Mexico, you are going to work and make the same money as I do. I do not want to pay alimony if we ever separate. Women that do not work in the USA that are married, the husband has to pay alimony should they get a divorce. This is not going to happen to me as it would be unfair.

One important point, if we ever get married don’t expect me to adopt your family, directly or indirectly. I will not allow them to live in my home. I have seen this happen to many times. I am sorry that I even had to bring it up.

If things ever got serious between you and me, you could stay in my home in Mexico or possibly in the USA. I would probably enroll you in a school for you to learn English or something of the sorts.

I like when a women is sexy and she is unapologetic about it. But if showing more skin and less clothes is your thing you may be too much into yourself. There are women that create themselves as temples. They crave attention, they have a need to turn men on without caring about them. It is mostly mental abuse that they're interested in. It is all about themselves and it leaves everyone else out the door. To me it is just a reflection of them being needy and having low self-esteem.

I want to be with a women that is simple, peaceful, that does not thrive on drama. One important thing, perhaps the most important of them all---I want to know that If I share my life with a woman and that if things don't work out, to end it in an honorable way. Even worst enemies can be respectful and act honorably. I do not like vengeance, playing dirty and putting on a hate parade. A relationship can end in good terms, and if it ends bad, it does not need to be made a further nightmare.

I am looking for a women that is a good listener, one that is as interested in listening as I am. The quality that will keep a loving relationship running well and interesting is a high quality communication. Everything else is secondary.

If we are together, I want to accompany you in the things you appreciate. It does not matter whether I like those activities or not. I would make it a point to accompanying you and I would expect the same from you. It is not a compromise but a commitment to give your partner the freedom to do what pleases them. If you love someone you'll do that for them. The people who don't are narcissists, controlling and manipulative individuals where everything centers around them.

I am looking for a woman that knows her place in the traditional roles of a marriage or relationship. I understand women like to be independent but as a woman I think she should know her own territory. Women expect men to fix cars, broken appliances, paint the house and maintain a nice yard. Men expect a woman to know how to run a house, keep things in order, know how to cook, clean things, sew clothing and son on. Even if servants do everything, a woman should know how to manage the household.

Women have a certain expectation of men. They want them to be educated, that have career, that has the basic things to live in a decent way. All of this makes room for a woman in their life.

What woman I ended up deciding to pursue for a relationship in this website may be determined to a certain extent on how well she would transition to moving with me in the USA or Mexico. If she has a career she can easily do here, it would ease my load. If I truly love a woman, nothing else would matter. But if a woman is resourceful and can survive well anywhere she lives...all the better.

No matter what I do, I am an artist. Artists are creators, they command the highest levels of communication, they feel deeper, see further with their visions more so than other people. I consider I am in that category regardless of my income, my success or failures in life. The essence I have you may end up becoming addicted to for an entire lifetime and search for it after I have passed on. If I can find this kind of quality in a women, I would most likely give everything and anything for her.

One good approach to a relationship is seeing each other as equals, even though we are not in every way. If either one acts as if one had more money, beauty, talent, ability, intelligence, experience over the other it would show having advantage over the other. This would allow manipulation to enter in. Manipulation in a relationship is not going to make it work. Manipulation is a two way street. It does not work one way only. Some partners in a relationship think they are the superior partner because they make more money in their job. They can demean their partner, feel self-entitled and so on.


This is a site to possibly meet someone for a formal relationship. It does not imply contacting one person at a time and seeing how that goes. This wouldn't be practical. The idea is to select the one of the bunch, that is most ideal for oneself. The idea is also to date. Dating does not imply you are in a formal relationship. So long as you are not in a formal relationship you can be in touch with multiple prospects in the area of love. Once I get myself a girlfriend I would stop dating other women. I would make it known I have a girlfriend. By the way, I am heterosexual. I don't involve my love partner with other people, be it men or women. I like the traditional relationship.